It is a properly recognised undeniable fact that the Pakistan ladies’s nationwide cricket crew is bolstered by the expertise Nida Dar brings to the sphere. But regardless of Dar’s place in worldwide cricket, our males cant appear to get previous judging her for her look.
In a video clip from G Sarkar with Nauman Ijaz broadcast June 6 on Neo Information, cricket participant Abdul Razzaq commented on Dar’s look, strongly implying that the cricketer seems to be extra like a person than a girl. The clip not too long ago caught the eye — and ire — of social media.
“She aspires to come to the level of the men’s cricket team and believes that men aren’t the only one’s who can do everything, women can do these things as well,” he said. “That is why the sensation is gone. Shake her arms and also you wont even really feel she’s a lady.”
Razzaq’s feedback are surprising, however sadly they don’t seem to be one thing ladies athletes have not heard earlier than. There are deep-set negatives attitudes in direction of the our bodies of feminine athletes all all over the world however particularly in Pakistan the place ladies are policed to look a sure means basically.
Ladies are sometimes commented on as being “too bulky”, “too tough” and extra popularly “too much like a man”. Such attitudes overlook years of coaching and an extended checklist of achievements and boil the achievements of athletes right down to a single trait — the best way they give the impression of being. The psychological toll of such remarks on ladies is usually a lot larger than is realised. And there is one factor we want to know — is there a set customary on what a girl ought to appear to be? Ladies appear to be what they appear to be — we are available all shapes and varieties and never everybody could suit your customary of femininity and that is okay.
Ladies have brief hair and girls have lengthy hair, ladies may be petite and girls may be tall and broad-shouldered — ladies can look nonetheless they please.
Dar bore Razzaq’s remark with numerous grace and dignity — excess of what we’d have had in the identical scenario. She defined why ladies cricketers appear extra ‘hardened’ than different ladies. “Our profession is such that we have to do batting, bowling and every other thing [that the sport requires] which needs fitness, so yes your body does become hard.”
Within the interview, one of many host comedians additionally joked about how the cricketer gave the impression to be “allergic” to the notion of marriage since she did not point out it.
“If I hadn’t been a cricketer, I would have definitely been a [sports] professional of some sort,” Dar had stated earlier within the present.
Most single ladies in Pakistan of a ‘sure age’ are the victims of snide remarks about marriage and we’re fairly positive Dar is not any completely different. But it surely being frequent would not excuse behaviour that devalues ladies primarily based on their marital standing. Such behaviour is very problematic if it happens on a chat present watched by many individuals throughout the nation.
This is not the primary time male cricketers have made sexist remarks. In 2017, cricket and former coach Waqar Younis was referred to as out for ‘suggesting’ on Twitter that the Ladies’s World Cup matches ought to have solely 30 overs as the usual 50 have been “a few too many”.
In 2019, cricketer Shahid Afridi met with criticism after he admitted in his autobiography Sport Changer that he refuses to let his daughters play outside sports activities. “It’s for social and religious reasons that I’ve made this decision regarding my daughters not competing in public sporting activities and their mother agrees with me,” he wrote.
Razzaq himself is not a stranger to creating controversial public remarks. On a tv programme in 2019, he admitted to being concerned in extramarital relationships with many ladies.
The video clip of Razzaq and Dar has been circulating on social media not too long ago and has left many individuals enraged. Customers on Twitter are calling Razzaq out for his sexist remarks.
One consumer wrote, “Nida Dar is one in every of Pakistan’s most interesting cricketers.
“Abdul Razzaq and others gang[ed] up to try to reduce her to marriage, hairstyles and femininity. Shows that women can be national heroes but will still be measured up against traditional societal expectations and gender roles.”
One other consumer referred to as the matter “disgusting”.
“Nida Dar should have slammed these people right there,” one consumer on Twitter wrote.
Dar has acquired worldwide appreciation and recognition for her achievements in cricket. She is the primary Pakistani cricketer to cross 100 wickets within the T20I format. Based on the ICC, she is barely the sixth cricketer total to attain this.
This achievement ranks Dar forward of celebrated cricket gamers like Afridi, Umar Gul and Saeed Ajmal when it comes to wicket-taking in T20I matches.
In 2019, Dar additionally grew to become the primary Pakistani girl cricketer to characteristic in a overseas league after she was chosen by Sydney Thunder as their abroad skilled participant in Australia’s Ladies’s Massive Bash League.
This entire matter has left us fuming. Cricket gamers akin to Razzaq must be the final ones to criticise ladies cricketers since they themselves can admire and perceive what the sport calls for from its gamers, no matter their gender. Even if you happen to aren’t a cricket participant, you need to have the ability to perceive what the game calls for from its athletes. We do not choose Afridi or Umar Akmal or Virat Kohli primarily based on their appearances, so why are we doing the identical to Nida Dar?
Sadly, there have been a number of individuals who justified Razzaq’s feedback as a substitute of criticising them. One consumer on Twitter stated “He would also call Ahmed Shehzad a girlish boy so sit down, it was all in a light mood.”
Discuss a deeply problematic opinion. If it is not acceptable to criticise Dar as “too manly” then it is not acceptable to bully Shehzad as a “girlish boy” both. Sexism works each methods.
One other consumer requested folks to “grow up” and take the humour of their stride. Sorry, we do not see the humour on this.
Apparently Razzaq is understood to make controversial remarks. “Razzaq is [the] Pakistani version of Varender Sehwag, a user wrote. “Razzaq makes controversial statements.”
Razzaq can be an grownup who ought to realise that he cannot simply shoot his mouth off at his personal discretion. He represented our nation as a part of our nationwide crew and now he is representing sexist males together with his feedback. Your bodily look doesn’t decide the type of cricket you play, your abilities do this and it’s protected to say that Nida Dar is a trailblazer and proficient cricketer. We solely want folks like Razzaq may see past their biases and prejudices and worth ladies cricketers for being the celebrities they’re.